Like they say- Life is about attachments, but for me I feel life is not about attachments. You have to live your life, like the way you want. It’s about picking up the things which are good for you and leaving behind what you don’t like & need. It’s like learning from the lessons from the past and having to improve your standard of living. Like our cellphones and computers, our heart and mind has limited space in it—store what is required and delete what is unnecessary.
We unnecessarily get attached to so many things in life and in the due course we forget to live in the present and be happy. I like to sum of few unnecessary things (FOR ME) which aren’t to be bothered in life. We always give importance to things which are superficial and which can be bought by money. We glue ourselves to useless people and feel depressed. I have ready in one article—as per monks, what they say is- a large happiness comes with fewer attachments. The more the layers, the less the peace of mind. As you travel in life, remember to let go what burdens you.
I like to sum of few unnecessary things (FOR ME) which aren’t to be bothered in life.
People are going to have an opinion on you anyway. So don’t waste your time on their opinion. Its good if you take a suggestion or an advice but don’t waste time on bothering about it.
These platforms are useless which only makes you compare how your friend is more happier than you. If you don’t want to compare your life with anyone or don’t want to get jealous of your ex posting pictures with, get out of social media immediately. Trust me, we survived without it all this while, so we can live without it too.
Sex is just a need of a human body. Of course, human body needs have to be met but that’s not a soul connection. I always feel there are other things which you could do instead like having a pizza. Either way, your time is more previous than having it with a wrong person who is not good in bed.
Time and tide waits for none. So whatever it is, time just don’t wait for you. So stop counting the time and live the moment. Live by counting your memories not the minutes.
There is a saying—“Whats done is done”. So there is no point in holding on to it. Delete it away, before it makes things worse.
SHORT TIME HAPPINESS:
You think its good and beautiful but once they are out everywhere you lose their value. I mean giving importance to things, once you start seeing it everywhere you suddenly want to get rid of it.
Taking decision – if you are so afraid to take a decision, it will get you nowhere. If you want to do something just do it that’s all. It will keep you shackled for some time, but at least you won’t regret not doing it.
It is so called “PAST” because there is a reason. Brining your past in your present and future will take you nowhere. All that past can teach is you a lesson but it cant stop you from taking decisiona or being happy in the present or future.
I know it’s a pleasure but I would rather consider reading a newspaper or an article or a blog than spending while night playing Candy Crush. Video games or television makes you lazy.
ADDICTION TO TECHNOLOGY:
If you are using anything and everything in your daily life out of technology then there is no need of human brains. So avoid technology as much as possible.
It’s over, you can’t do anything now. So stop bothering about and wasting your time and energy. Let it go- you have done wrong, you apologized and leave it.
Stop dreaming and make it possible. When you can dream you can make it possible too.
ADDICTION TO DRUGS
I call bad friends as drugs. A bad friend is as dangerous as a drug, so stop getting addicted to them.
They have given you birth and you go make it possible. If you don’t earn to learn your own money, just stop living. If they give you 5000 you have to be in a position to make it into 50000- the joy if life will come from making it yourself rather than depending on someone.
Stop waiting for an approval from society. You know, all the great inventions in the history are the things which were not approved by the society then. Those who withstand the pressure are those who can stay for long.
Stop being connected with bad people be it friend or family. You know who they are, so just avoid. They are the one who will always leave you with a bad remark. They are very good usually in front of you once you turn your back they spit on you. So, avoid them.
Stop living in doubt- Do research and start implementing.
Comparison will only make you feel bad. You can’t compare oranges to lemons to apples. You have your own way of living so set your own standards.
I know some people are starve themselves to look young and lean. Total waste- Workout for living healthy life but eat what you like. Don’t give importance for others feelings what they say how you look? Life is not only about green salad from Subway, it also about friend chicken from KFC too.
Stop using filters of your life just like you use filters to look beautiful in photographs. Show what you have and what you can do. Stop being fake.
If there is a closed behind you, there is no need to look back. If there is no option, then stop worrying about it.