Way of life..

Like they say- Life is about attachments, but for me I feel life is not about attachments. You have to live your life, like the way you want. It’s about picking up the things which are good for you and leaving behind what you don’t like & need. It’s like learning from the lessons from the past and having to improve your standard of living. Like our cellphones and computers, our heart and mind has limited space in it—store what is required and delete what is unnecessary.

We unnecessarily get attached to so many things in life and in the due course we forget to live in the present and be happy. I like to sum of few unnecessary things (FOR ME) which aren’t to be bothered in life. We always give importance to things which are superficial and which can be bought by money. We glue ourselves to useless people and feel depressed. I have ready in one article—as per monks, what they say is- a large happiness comes with fewer attachments. The more the layers, the less the peace of mind. As you travel in life, remember to let go what burdens you.

I like to sum of few unnecessary things (FOR ME) which aren’t to be bothered in life.


People are going to have an opinion on you anyway. So don’t waste your time on their opinion. Its good if you take a suggestion or an advice but don’t waste time on bothering about it.


These platforms are useless which only makes you compare how your friend is more happier than you. If you don’t want to compare your life with anyone or don’t want to get jealous of your ex posting pictures with, get out of social media immediately.  Trust me, we survived without it all this while, so we can live without it too.


Sex is just a need of a human body. Of course, human body needs have to be met but that’s not a soul connection. I always feel there are other things which you could do instead like having a pizza. Either way, your time is more previous than having it with a wrong person who is not good in bed.


Time and tide waits for none. So whatever it is, time just don’t wait for you. So stop counting the time and live the moment. Live by counting your memories not the minutes.


There is a saying—“Whats done is done”. So there is no point in holding on to it. Delete it away, before it makes things worse.


You think its good and beautiful but once they are out everywhere you lose their value. I mean giving importance to things, once you start seeing it everywhere you suddenly want to get rid of it.


Taking decision – if you are so  afraid to take a decision, it will get you nowhere. If you want to do something just do it that’s all. It will keep you shackled for some time, but at least you won’t regret not doing it.


It is so called “PAST” because there is a reason. Brining your past in your present and future will take you nowhere. All that past can teach is you a lesson but it cant stop you from taking decisiona or being happy in the present or future.


I know it’s a pleasure but I would rather consider reading a newspaper or an article or a blog than spending while night playing Candy Crush. Video games or television makes you lazy.


If you are using anything and everything in your daily life out of technology then there is no need of human brains. So avoid technology as much as possible.


It’s over, you can’t do anything now. So stop bothering about and wasting your time and energy. Let it go- you have done wrong, you apologized and leave it.


Stop dreaming and make it possible. When you can dream you can make it possible too.


I call bad friends as drugs. A bad friend is as dangerous as a drug, so stop getting addicted to them.


They have given you birth and you go make it possible. If you don’t earn to learn your own money, just stop living. If they give you 5000 you have to be in a position to make it into 50000- the joy if life will come from making it yourself rather than depending on someone.


Stop waiting for an approval from society. You know, all the great inventions in the history are the things which were not approved by the society then. Those who withstand the pressure are those who can stay for long.


Stop being connected with bad people be it friend or family. You know who they are, so just avoid. They are the one who will always leave you with a bad remark. They are very good usually in front of you once you turn your back they spit on you. So, avoid them.


Stop living in doubt- Do research and start implementing.


Comparison will only make you feel bad. You can’t compare oranges to lemons to apples. You have your own way of living so set your own standards.


I know some people are starve themselves to look young and lean. Total waste- Workout for living healthy life but eat what you like. Don’t give importance for others feelings what they say how you look? Life is not only about green salad from Subway, it also about friend chicken from KFC too.


Stop using filters of your life just like you use filters to look beautiful in photographs. Show what you have and what you can do. Stop being fake.


If there is a closed behind you, there is no need to look back. If there is no option, then stop worrying about it.

Quick note for today..

It’s been really long time I haven’t slept like I used to before. I’m not getting enough sleep. May be lack of peace of mind. I have to change, we can’t faff around forever.

I took up a new short term freelance stuff in the morning to pay my credit card bills from last month but that is yet to complete. Yuge amount of credit card bill pending from last month (almost beyond the card limit), I wish someone borrows me some money or their unused 500s/1000s instead of throwing or surrendering it to the Govt for 200% tax.

I had to get through this otherwise, office work being slow due to holiday up ahead I don’t think so I can overcome. The work has been pending since long but yet not finished—not sure but just not finding peace of mind to finish anything. Just trying to deviate my mind from some issues, but literally not happening. The past is stuck like rust in my head.

You know what they always say, a blank mind is like a blank paper, where you can write anything and wipe anything but we forget the fact that paper can be destroyed once used, but mind, you see, if something written can’t be erased to easily, especially when you write is so hard.

Anyway I’m going to come back to the blog in a regular way now. I think I will writing on different things as usual like before. Even if it is to put a comma on the page and shut down, I shall promise to continue..

Tough Times Ahead..

What amazed me is about tough days in life and how they always come to an end. Hard times continue longer but good times stay with you for sometime. The dark road which you take towards success is often very far and the legacy of success seems to be total tough. But with a potent nugget of effort you put to drive through the way that’s when the light begins.

You always have to brace yourself to pass through and wait for it. Slowly, slowly, the time will pass and the tough road will come to end end.

May be that’s how life is..

Desperate Or Needy?

Well, most the times people aren’t ready for a relationship yet. At times, we feel pressurized, could be from society or a parental pressure or sometimes the desperateness from inside of being lonely. This is not totally correct, I reckon a person must only get committed once when is fully ready that too with someone with full degree of compassion.

What I find these days with everyone is totally reverse. A guy want a partner with desperateness and a girl needs a partner with necessity. In other words, a guy want to be with a girl who may is in need of a partner.  They deeply go in search of a partner with almost care and concern only to make sure they get compromised or adjusted. Like they say, you can’t find happiness, but once adjusted or make some room happiness comes sits beside you. So, years and years you wait for someone who can listen to you, and follow your orders. Phew!!! I feel that level of clarity, compassion and focus of picking a suitable partner if kept in pursuing sales target or becoming rich, and then you never know where you would reach.

I don’t believe this existed couple of years ago, but these days it’s become excessive. Well, what I mean are calculations we make for a relationship (relationship I mean be it dating someone or a marriage). A person is always calculating a strategy to pursue a person who is actually either is ‘Desperate’ or in ‘need’. What makes is more crazy is that there is no purpose of that relation at all sometimes.

I had to dismiss so called “Love marriage” concept because I don’t believe that term even exists for me at all. To be more honest, I was always been into one of the weak relations before like a ‘Giver’ or sometimes as ‘Taker’. I don’t know if I could call myself needy or desperate but that just made me realize to be more independent or stronger or self-sufficient.

My point is, what you ‘need’ and ‘want’ is life reflects your own helplessness in the face of the uncertainty of fate. Our triviality towards life and feelings, this is the reason you always keep judging people and for which most of the times you repent. And that’s why you feel sorry!!!

For all the people, I judged and no longer in touch and those who are reading this, please know that I didn’t judge you because you weren’t weak, it is because I was weak In making decisions and the fear that I might be lost again.

And for the ones who did the same to me, please also know that I forgive you.

Life is hope..

Sometimes the survival feels like you are fighting a battle. It feels broken, lonely and isolated.

We always believe our confidence and ideas for life will be true until the day life duped you. The end of confidence is the changing moment. That moment you feel there is nothing to hang on, your life becomes empty and fraught. You curse the time and even before you realize, the damage is already done.

That’s when you need to find a new direction for life, something new to believe in to continue living. And most of the times is the way of thinking and its possible only with YOU! Life is all about belief which makes your survival easy, some hope, a ray of light for you to continue living.

It’s a war between, Emotions And Feelings And Logical Mind Vs Emotional Heart!!!!

So, please happy with yourself because the world is very very very hard on us.

A Love Story..

It wasn’t an easy road he has taken- he has worked at a call center at nights, saving every penny to run his everyday life. He also played a role of a daily marketing executive on weekends to get some extra money. All his life was about to earn money and take care of the family- he couldn’t lose an opportunity to find a penny and save it. He proved it that ‘Success doesn’t come to you, you run for it’ was true notion. He deserved every bit of it right now.

She loved him of course, he knew it too. But his dreams were more important than anything else. He admired her every bit and always appreciated her  hard work and perseverance. She always reminded him of a mirror image and a male version of his own.

He lost his father at a young age and had to take care of his family—ever since day his dad passed away, he juggled many jobs, barely making any savings hardly enough to pay the rent and run the home.

All he thought was “Together” will be the only place, when he first saw her. His heart ached, when he imagines a life without her. He is still missing the comfort in her arms, spark in his life and the laughter at the silliest jokes. Now life has begun to teach him that, roses doesn’t have thorns, it’s the thorns which have roses. The magic was felt without a word being spoken, just by a single touch. In her presence it felt like a lightning struck. Not sure, but his heart always pulls to her like a magnet, why?? Almost every meeting they had, was with passion and indulgence of their souls. Be it a coffee, or a dinner or a brisk walk it was with mounted passion. But he knew, the “Perfect” moment wouldn’t last long.

The time is gone and it’s time to accept the truth. He had to face it. All that it runs in the mind right now is running through life is hard, but accepting the facts of life is the hardest.

Well, people always think – ‘Goodbye’ & ‘Let Go’ are almost the same but there is a difference. Goodbye means, perhaps will meet again, when I’m ready and you are but ‘Letting Go’ is I’ll miss you to eternity. That’s when you realize it’s not YOU but someone else will hold her hands.

Then he realized “I thought your absence would transform me but it made me realize who I am.”

Don’t Breathe

Don’t breathe – definitely it doesn’t let you breath for the entire movie. Apt title!

Well, what an excellent movie. No hungama, not posh locations, no huge star cast. Shot entirely in a single apartment with a minimum characters.

Well, the movie is about a blind man defending his property against three intruders. Fighting to save his wealth from three greedy young kids and becomes successful in doing so.

Basically the movie teaches everyone a lesson that, if you are powerful in your way, and have set you boundaries to defend what you have, then no disability or anything in the whole planet will steal that away from you.


Definitely a worth watch!

Why Do Girls Need Unknown Freedom?

Most of the newly married couple these days either wants to get separates from parents & if you ask the most primary reason to the MEN they say it’s because the girl/wife.  Actually this is coming out from my exp because- It’s time for me to get married and most of the girls I talk prefer to stay independent away from IN LAWS—Pstt!

It’s pretty obvious that if they want to settle down in countries abroad because of fashionable life, high speed life, status and growth. I feel this is literally bullshit—don’t you think all this can be done staying here in the city with your families? And one more thing most importantly is I don’t see any reason why they don’t want to stay with their in laws, of course its not necessary that everyone are doing but the modern age I see 80% of the newly married couple prefer to live away from parents. And most obvious reason is adaptation of western culture—

In India and as per our Indian traditions & culture parents are considered as the most important member of family. They are wise, experienced & head of the family-they have taken care of this until this while & don’t you guys think at their old age, we should take care of them.

I seriously feel those you want to live away from family & settle abroad either are not taking their responsibilities seriously or they want to have some kind of unknown freedom which doesn’t may any sense to me. What’s the whole life, when you don’t have your closed ones with you.

Its just simply we are adapting stupid western culture.

The Old Is New Again

The people who will help you when you are low & the people who will support you when the life is turning upside down may not always be the same but some people back out their existence from helping you when you are down prove their relevance in your life for them.

There are always new friends who make way, like they say- plenty of fish in the sea. Of course only when you forget and move on..

2016 The Year Of Uncertainty

2016 has been a very tough year.

This year had moments which took my breath away which have been rippled through my heart and soul while, it also has lot of moments on anguish and questions. Well, to be honest mostly pertaining to relationships. Of course to the job as well!

The year has been lost to find the direction in life. However, the only question still stuck in my mind is “Why me?”

I’m really interested to know, why do; I have to go through what I’m going through? This isn’t kind of complaint of that sort but yes no one seem to be listening actually.

I would like to go somewhere, may be on top of the world’s top most building, a room covered with thick and strong fiber-glass, the corner of the room filled with water, and if I stood outside the room of the pent house, I’d see the world with poisonous people around.

Right in front of me, it rains, it shines, and the rain, the sun & the moon have to first take an approval from me before they meet the land. I want to get over before I can understand what’s going on. It so feels like fiction. I don’t understand why I’m suddenly feeling so sober?

I have never liked to be alone in my life, but now…

I never liked staying alone at home on weekends, but now…

I never liked watching YouTube videos, but now…

I never liked reading books, but now…

I never liked growing beard, but now…

I never liked vegetarian food, but now…

I never liked old movies, but now…

I used to have a real excitement for movies & music, but now…

I used to have an excellent judgment on anything, but now it’s only tough to take the call. It feels like my hands have become calloused.

I can only confront this way, the night will pass, and the morning is yet to come.